180 degrees

It’s hard to admit you’re wrong.

It’s harder to apologize to the people you’ve wronged.

It’s hardest of all to affirmatively do something about it.

The last couple of weeks have seen a slew of attacks on cyclists. Mason Katz, a professional baseball player, used his Twitter account to attack people who ride bicycles and suggest that their mere existence made him contemplate harming them.


Then there was the woman who I’ll just politely refer to as the Charlotte Nutjob. After assaulting a peaceful group of cyclists she was portrayed in the first news stories as a victim.


At least one follow-up story confirmed that she’s actually an idiot. Maybe that makes some people feel better.

And then there was the San Diego Easy Reader story, peddling lies and absurd analyses from the Cato Institute trying to argue that bike planning is irrational and we should spend more time and money helping the poor beleaguered car industry.


All of this followed hot on the heels of stories in which Peter King, Sports Illustrated flunky, and his flunkette driver Jenny Vrentas, made a ha-ha-ho-ho joke about driving their cage in the bike lane on the way to a football game, which in turn was contemporaneous with a tweet by NFL Network analyst @HeathEvans 44, which highlighted the irrational rage that so many drivers feel at simply encountering an ordinary bicycle rider “clogging the street,” i.e. “riding lawfully.”

But then the story line changed.

One of my Big Orange club members, Delia Park, reached out to @HeathEvans44 and invited him to come apologize to our club before the Sunday ride. “Sure,” I thought. “Like he’s going to show up at 6:30 AM on  Sunday to get berated by a bunch of old farts in orange underwear.”

“Sure,” @HeathEvans44 responded. “I’d love to.”

“Believe it when I see it,” was my cynical thought.

Yesterday morning at the Center of the Known Universe a/k/a CotKU a/k/a the Manhattan Beach Pier Starbucks, @HeathEvans44 showed up as promised. Delia, Joann Zwagermann, Greg Leibert, Steve Utter, my youngest son Woodrow, and I were all there.

I had prepped my son about what to expect, prejudiced as I am. “The guy’s going to be some insincere asshat who’s been hassled on social media and probably by his employer to make this right. He’ll be condescending as shit.”

What we found was something so far away from that. @HeathEvans44 was, first and foremost, appalled that he’d tweeted something that condoned violence. He was more than apologetic. His voice, his manner, and his words evinced nothing but regret of the sincerest kind. You got the feeling that here was a guy who was gentle, kind, and who wanted to right a wrong. You know the old saying, “People make mistakes”? Well, they do. What they often don’t do, is apologize for them.

In addition to profoundly apologizing, Heath admitted to not having known the law. He asked forgiveness. He praised cycling as a sport, and he had obvious, unfeigned respect for the riders who were getting ready to roll forth for the day. He was an athlete who respected fitness and athleticism.

As if all that weren’t enough, he agreed that something further needed to be done to help educate the motoring public and to help counteract the gut reaction that many people have when they see a rider “in their way.” In our short pre-ride meeting there was no time to nail down specifics, but he shared his private cell phone and promised to work together with us to help get the word out.

Finally, he stood out at CotKU while iPhones snapped and popped. I’d had no idea that so many cyclists loved football. One rider asked him where he went to college. “Auburn,” he said.

“My daughter goes there,” said the rider, rolling up his sleeve to show an elaborate War Eagles tattoo. Football talk quickly ensured. Far from rushing away as soon as he could, he hung around to chat until the cyclists themselves clicked in and rolled out.

@HeathEvans44’s Twitter tag line is “Don’t dish if you can’t take it.” Pretty admirable to see someone turn a negative into a positive, and be adult enough to reverse course when the initial tack was just plain wrong. It’s a lesson we should all take to heart.

[EDIT: The original post neglected to mention that this would not have happened without the work of Joann Zwagermann, who helped spotlight the problem and who relentlessly engaged. It also omitted to recognize the work that Matt Miller, also of Big Orange, did to make sure that our efforts were positive, peaceful, and dedicated to rapprochement rather than acrimony and recrimination. Thank you to all.]



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44 thoughts on “180 degrees”

  1. Shocking what happens when people actually speak with one another instead of flaming and trolling on social media.

    1. He’s already taken time out and met with one group of cyclists. And for someone with a big platform, what he says is really, really important.

  2. Thank you for sharing this Seth. It’s not easy apologizing – even less so in person. And to give out his personal cell # and want to do more to help? Very encouraging.

  3. Good show Heath Evans. I am impressed he would show up in that early to personally apologize.

  4. Delia and Joann are the muscle and brains behind Big Orange. Every cycling club should have a couple of them.
    Love you ladies! Thanks for all you do!

  5. Thanks, Seth. Good to see that there is a silver lining.

    Front page of the Sunday San Diego Union-Tribune shouted this headline yesterday…”Would many of the city’s commuters ever use these….instead of these?”
    I’ll send you the photo….a lot of work to do down here….

    1. Thanks–love the way they show the freeway with only three cars on it. Riiiiiight.

  6. WOW – the guy showed up as promised? Who actually does this any more? Most would have sent a representative. He really seems like gentle person.

  7. Way to go Delia, and kudos to Heath as well! Maybe we could get him to escort us through PV…or maybe speak at the council meetings.

  8. Learning from mistakes may be the only way we ever learn anything.

    Making mistakes is easy. Knowing that they are mistakes is the hard part.

    1. Don’t they do that all the time? “The purple team drove fifty yards for a touchdown.” Or is it a touch-up? I can never keep any of it straight. Just pedal, Mongo like pedal.

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  10. Thanks for posting this update on H.E., I had not heard about this. I can have respect for a person that apologizes for their bad behavior. We all act poorly once in a while, owning it and making it right is a sign of character.

    1. Couldn’t agree more. And when the person speaks from a loud platform and influences others, it’s even more impressive.

  11. it’s funny…Seth will “take liberty” sometimes while telling a story…ESPECIALLY at CotKU!!!…but in this case, it’s the truth all the way….and what a truth. I’m so pleased.

    1. Thanks for helping make it happen, Greg. Probably the only true tale that’s ever come out of CotKU!

  12. The best of the best.
    And a big orange thx to Greg Leibert for ( no surprise here ) being part of this !

  13. Great story. Your group acted in a manner befitting ambassadors for cycling. One down, many to go.

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